"No person can be a great leader unless he takes genuine joy in the successes of those under him." - W.A. Nance
I was up early again this morning for some Tiger baseball, a walk and then morning prayers and mass with Peter. After mass I went down to the river walk for about an hour of quiet time. It is so nice to be able to come and go as you please once again. My Tigers lost again.
A good friend passed away yesterday back at Maryknoll, NY. Fr. Mo Zerr M.M., was 98 years old and Maryknoll priest for over 70 years. We first met when I was a seminarian and visited the Maryknoll residence in Nairobi, Kenya in 1982. I was on my way to the northern part of Kenya to spend a month with the Turkana people. Those were tough times for the Turkana as they were in the middle of a severe drought and famine. Fr. Mo was never a big fan of my coming to China and leaving the African mission, but we always had good talks whenever we were together. R.I.P Fr. Zerr
This afternoon I had a Zoom meeting with a group of former students which went really well. It was interesting to compare stories/situations from these past few months, as some of them have had no problems with Covid-19 lockdowns, etc. and some of us have been living through a hell on earth the past 60 days or so. We talked about the possibility of having a retreat sometime later this year. Because of Covid-19 our group has not had a retreat since late 2019.
With the lockdown now history we have Jingmei with us again. She cooked us a great meal today and spent a lot of time cleaning what I thought was a clean apartment. A few friends had told me that they were sure Jingmei would be spending a lot of time cleaning after she returned to work. It is a nice feeling to get things back to normal.
Today's lunch
Nice to be back on the riverwalk again.
Today’s Gospel and some comments:
“Do not let your hearts be troubled. Believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also. And you know the way to the place where I am going.” Thomas said to him, “Lord, we do not know where you are going. How can we know the way?” Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:1-6
The metaphor of ‘path’ is universal in spirituality. It is so deeply embedded that it scarcely seems a metaphor at all. The metaphor easily extends itself into ‘climbing’, and gives us the titles of many classics: The Ascent of Mount Carmel (St John of the Cross), The Ladder of Perfection (Walter Hilton), A Ladder of Four Rungs (a 15th-century translation of a book by Guigo II), etc.
In this passage Jesus spoke of a ‘place’. This too is a metaphor, of course. Eternal life has no geographical location. He also spoke of the path (the “way”) in this passage: “You know the way to the place….” But ‘place’ is a metaphor we should not pass over.
Metaphors are not strictly true or false in the way that literal speech is. For this reason they don't exclude one another – as is clear from the way Jesus used two apparently opposite ones in the same sentence.
Let’s dwell for a moment on the metaphor of place. The ‘place’ of spirituality is always here, this place – just as the time is always now. Are we not already here now? Yes and no. Physically I am always ‘here’, and the time is always ‘now’. But in every other way I can be simply absent. From this angle, spiritual development is less like making a journey than waking up from a dream. In the dream you are in Beijing or in Shanghai. But to come back to reality you don't need to book a flight, you don't have to travel at all. All you need is someone’s elbow in your ribs!
An older translation had “In my Father’s house there are many mansions.” The word comes from Latin manere, to remain. ‘Mansion’ means a place where you stay and don't move. In a hyper-active age it is helpful to be reminded not to move. Meister Eckhart: “People say: 'Alas, sir, I wish I stood as well with God or had as much devotion and were as much at peace with God as others are…. I can never manage it unless I am there or there, or do this or that; I must get away from it all, or go and live in a cell or a cloister.' In fact, the reason lies entirely with yourself and with nothing else. It is self-will, though you may not know it or believe it…. Though we may think one should flee these things or seek those things – places or people or methods, or company or deeds – this is not the reason why methods or things hold you back: what prevents you is you yourself in the things, for you have a wrong attitude to things. Begin therefore with yourself and forget yourself.”